The Ready For Polyamory Podcast

Ready for Polyamory? Education, humor, and personal stories on ethical non-monogamy and polyamory.

About the show

Welcome to the Ready for Polyamory Podast! Your charming host, Laura Boyle, will be talking to members of an ever more illustrious group of guests to present the concepts and nuances of Consensual Non-Monogamy, Polyamory and relationship skills in general. Like many polyamorous authorities, she has both mixed educational background (in English Literature, Sexual Diversity Studies, and Law) and personal experience (15 years at the time of this writing) in the field of consensual non-monogamy, and ten in polyamorous relationships more specifically, and this podcast is for the Big General Concepts that don't fit the nerdy detail of the blog (www.readyforpolyamory.com), or the bite-sized format of social media. It's an ongoing examination of polyamorous love, strengths, and challenges, as seen by a 30-something relationship and sex educator and coach.

Episodes

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    Season 3 Episode 5: FWB and Play Partners

    May 8th, 2021  |  Season 3  |  31 mins 49 secs
    consensual nonmonogamy, jealousy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, relationships

    Laura discusses the application of CNM, polyamory, and relationship anarchy theory to fwb and play partner relationships and the joy points and points involved.

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    Season 3 Episode 4: Relationship Anarchy

    May 2nd, 2021  |  Season 3  |  47 mins 27 secs

    In an examination of the Relationship Anarchist Manifesto, Laura and David Overton look at how different relationships can fit polyamorous norms or not within the principles of relationship anarchy.

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    Season 3 Episode 3: Emotional Processing

    April 24th, 2021  |  Season 3  |  35 mins 40 secs
    coping, emotions, partners, polyamory, processing

    Laura and Orphne discuss processing difficult emotions and conflicts internally and externally and the pros and cons of both approaches.

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    Season 3 Episode 2: Attachment Theory

    April 17th, 2021  |  Season 3  |  40 mins 22 secs
    attachment, attachment theory, love, polyamory, relationship, security, trauma

    Jessica Fern appears to discuss Attachment Theory, trauma, and secure relating in polyamorous relationships in an interview.

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    Season 3 Episode 1: Polyamory, Disability & Accessibility

    April 10th, 2021  |  Season 3  |  54 mins 35 secs
    adhd, coach, disability, polyamory, relationship, sex educator

    Laura & Rachael Rose of Hedonish talk about disability, accessibility, and how the polyamorous community can best address the needs of its members with disabilities.

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    Season 2 Episode 12: Insecurity and Polyamory

    March 13th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  40 mins
    boundaries, insecurity, polyamorous, polyamory, relationship

    Laura and Seva talk about ways polyamory is well-suited to help people work through their insecurities in themselves and in relationships.

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    Season 2 Episode 11: Legal Hypotheticals

    March 6th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  57 mins 50 secs
    domestic partner, legal, marriage, polyamory, relationship

    Laura and her guest examine some possible paths for future legal acceptance of polyamorous relationships , based on growing social acceptance. #notlegaladvice.

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    Season 2 Episode 10: Polyamory and Power Exchange

    February 27th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  34 mins 40 secs
    d/s, polyamory, power exchange, relationship

    Laura (sans guest, because the pandemic has disabled her planned guest!) discusses polyamory and power exchange relationships.

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    Season 2 Episode 9: Love and Apology Languages

    February 20th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  1 hr 10 mins
    apology languages, conflict resolution, love languages, metamour, polyamory

    This week on the Ready for Polyamory Podcast, Laura talks with Orphne Sicarius for this podcast episode focused broadly on Love Languages and Apology Languages, and how these concepts apply in polyamorous networks. The conversation expands to include conflict with metamours and trauma informed interpersonal interactions.

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    Season 2 Episode 8: Coming Out Part 2

    February 13th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  1 hr 1 min

    Laura and guests Daniel GreenWolf, Corwin, Seva, Jami, and Brian discuss reactions to coming out, controlling the message, and the ongoing role of coming out in one's day-to-day life in Part 2 of their roundtable discussion.

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    Season 2 Episode 7: Coming Out

    February 6th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  49 mins 51 secs
    coming out, pansexual, polyamorous, polyamory, queer, relationship

    Laura and guests Daniel GreenWolf, Corwin, Seva, Brian, and Jami discuss coming out as polyamorous (and in the case of some guests, as queer) to friends and family, who they came out to first, and what reactions they received.

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    Season 2 Episode 6: Boundaries

    January 30th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  1 hr 29 mins
    boundary, polyamory, polycule, relationships, rules

    Laura and a roundtable of guests discuss personal boundaries and how they apply to all interpersonal relationships, but especially romantic and polyamorous relationships.

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    Season 2 Episode 5: Polyamory: Married and Dating

    January 23rd, 2021  |  Season 2  |  1 hr 21 mins

    Laura and Corwin tear apart the tropes and stereotypes in the second half of season 1 of Showtime's Polyamory: Married and Dating, both for humor and to talk about what looks real, what looks fake, and how to avoid the relationship mistakes characters make in the show.

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    Season 2 Episode 4: Off Escalator Relationships

    January 16th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  44 mins 23 secs

    Laura and Meadow Perry discuss relationships off the Relationship Escalator, designing your own metrics of whether they're working, and the ways it can be a struggle to get off the escalator in our larger culture.

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    Season 2 Episode 3: Love in the Time of Covid

    January 9th, 2021  |  Season 2  |  1 hr 4 mins
    covid19, polyamory, polycule, relationships, rules

    Laura and David Overton discuss the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic and precautions against it on polycules and polyamorous relationships.

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    Season 2 Episode 2: Hierarchy

    January 2nd, 2021  |  Season 1  |  56 mins 20 secs

    Dr. Liz Powell and Laura discuss Prescriptive, Descriptive, and Sneaky Hierarchies - as well as a bunch of jokes, sight gags, Dr. Liz's New Year's Project, and how fear and trauma intersect with hierarchy and rules.