The Ready For Polyamory Podcast

Season 2 Episode 8: Coming Out Part 2

February 13th, 2021

"Isn't that cat toes?"

Today, in the second half of their conversation, our heroes from last week continue on their epic Quest For Answers About Coming Out.

...Wait, wrong genre.

They do have a nice conversation including a bunch of strategies for how to handle situations where folks have negative or shocked reactions to information on polyamory, as well as some funny stories about people getting things Very Wrong because the monogamous programming is strong with them. (that's where the cat's toes come in.)

Regardless of whether you come out often, once, or not yet, these two podcast episodes taken together have good information for you.

As always, you can click the guest bios below for detailed information on my guests, but for those of you not using my podcast host to listen:

  • Daniel GreenWolf is an Award-winning Magician, writer, creator, & slightly mad Irishman who you can find at . He's also a pagan, pansexual polyamorist who's been in his longest running polyamorous relationship for seven years, and he's an outspoken advocate for polyamory as well as an amazing performer.
  • Corwin is the owner and operator of Upline Studios who you can find at . He's been in ethically nonmonogamous relationships for eight years.
  • Seva has been polyamorous for seven years. She is an educator in the non-monogamy and rope communities and helped build the Upline Studio.
  • Jami and Brian Zapata are poly-pagans who've been out all closets for a long time. Brian's a hetero software QA release manager, Jami is a pansexual, non-binary, gender-non-conforming Fire official. They enjoy Renaissance Faires, Dungeons and Dragons, and can't wait to socialize with their friends again.

As always, the music is provided by the talented Vince Conaway (, the blog is at, the Patreon is at, and the ko-fi is at