August 7th, 2021 | Season 3 | 23 mins 16 secs
boundaries, codependence, codependent, polyamory, relationship
Codependence is hardly a new concept, but is it a useful one? This week Laura looks at alternate ways to discuss relationships that struggle with being all-consuming.
July 31st, 2021 | Season 3 | 39 mins
agreements, boundaries, polyamory, relationship, saying no
In all kinds of relationships, but especially romantic and polyamorous network ones, being trusted to say 'no' when you mean it and hold your boundaries by 'guarding your yes' for things you mean to keep your word to is an essential life skill. In this episode we discuss why saying 'no' can be difficult, signs you aren't reserving 'yes' for times you mean it enthusiastically, and how to transition into a pattern of using 'No' more often and 'Yes' intentionally.
May 22nd, 2021 | Season 3 | 47 mins 22 secs
agreements, boundaries, opening up, polyamory, relationship
Laura tells all! (Well, not quite) in a discussion of how to make early relationship agreements, with detailed examples from her early relationships.
April 17th, 2021 | Season 3 | 40 mins 22 secs
attachment, attachment theory, love, polyamory, relationship, security, trauma
Jessica Fern appears to discuss Attachment Theory, trauma, and secure relating in polyamorous relationships in an interview.
April 10th, 2021 | Season 3 | 54 mins 35 secs
adhd, coach, disability, polyamory, relationship, sex educator
Laura & Rachael Rose of Hedonish talk about disability, accessibility, and how the polyamorous community can best address the needs of its members with disabilities.
March 13th, 2021 | Season 2 | 40 mins
boundaries, insecurity, polyamorous, polyamory, relationship
Laura and Seva talk about ways polyamory is well-suited to help people work through their insecurities in themselves and in relationships.
March 6th, 2021 | Season 2 | 57 mins 50 secs
domestic partner, legal, marriage, polyamory, relationship
Laura and her guest examine some possible paths for future legal acceptance of polyamorous relationships , based on growing social acceptance. #notlegaladvice.
February 27th, 2021 | Season 2 | 34 mins 40 secs
d/s, polyamory, power exchange, relationship
Laura (sans guest, because the pandemic has disabled her planned guest!) discusses polyamory and power exchange relationships.
February 6th, 2021 | Season 2 | 49 mins 51 secs
coming out, pansexual, polyamorous, polyamory, queer, relationship
Laura and guests Daniel GreenWolf, Corwin, Seva, Brian, and Jami discuss coming out as polyamorous (and in the case of some guests, as queer) to friends and family, who they came out to first, and what reactions they received.
August 8th, 2020 | Season 1 | 45 mins 37 secs
compersion, jealousy, metamour, non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship
Laura and her friend Talya have a wide-ranging discussion centered around polyamorous community and finding one's "people"